Archive for September, 2005

How to keep your tummy full,

Wednesday, September 28th, 2005

A guide for overseas students (especially those single guys).

Getting food is basic survivor skill. You can’t survive too long without food. Without good (enough) food, there could be a sharp drop in Quality of Life.

Being overseas students in developed country, the main stumbling block to getting good enough food is money. It cost at least £10 to eat out in a Chinese restaurant in Belfast. £10 can be a lot of money for most students.

I am going to tell you all stories of friends (or ppl whom I know), and how they go about getting fed without spending too much money or effort. For confidentiality, no name will be mention, will call them by nick name :P

Talking about getting free food, the first person who spring into my mind is Rhino. Being a Medic, there are plenty of free “drug lunch” which you can attend. Representative of drug companies are always keen to influence doctors prescribing habit. One of the ways to achieve this is by inviting doctors to their presentations over lunch time. Obviously, lunch will be catered for; usually there will be plenty of sandwiches, finger food, and fruits. Rhino, being a hungry student (and later junior doc) would always be around during this drug lunch. He will fill himself up, and fill up his bag!! Most of the other Malaysian Doc would be ashamed to be associated with him, especially during drug lunch! But he gets his tummy full, and collected enough food for dinner, supper and breakfast the next day. It is survivor, but without style.

On the other hand, Mr Dolphin, a guy who cannot bother to put effort into cooking. Being quite a sociable person, sometime others do not mind asking him over for dinner for his company (or out of sympathy? His is skinny…). However, you cannot expect people to feed him everyday. Then again, it is not a bad way of getting free food.

When I first came to Belfast, there were quite a number of invitations to dinner parties, organised by local “Friendship” groups. With free food as bait, cultural exchange as excuse, it was difficult to refuse their invitation/temptation. Before long, I realised that it was not worth the free food, to sit there enduring hours of evangelism and attempt conversion. I think they realised too that I was not worth the effort; it has been a long long time since I was invited again, what a relief.

Having Pot Luck party is an easy way to get many people to visit, and food is usually good. It is nice to have a change, eating food prepared by others. The important thing is that u have a good relationship with others, and never be left out of a party. Another tips is to master one or two dishes that no one else in the group know how to make. When planning for Pot Luck party, people will remember your food if not you. I specialty was “Tofu Egg”, basically steam eggs that taste like tofu, prepared in 5 mins. You want the recipe? Email me :P

Other practical ways to get your tummy filled is obviously learn how to cook. Cooking in turns is also a good idea, but it will only work, if all members of the group are not too fussy and willing to put in effort when their turns come.

Obviously, there are some lucky fellas out there with GF, and never need to cook… Also out there are some who still refused to learn to cook, and choose to eat instant noodles everyday.

Mooncake and a dog…

Monday, September 19th, 2005

Li Bai 李白 (701-762) once wrote this famous poem while he was away from home…

床前明月光

疑是地上霜

举头望明月

低头思故乡

Before my bed, the moon is shining bright,
I thought that it is frost upon the ground.
I raise my head, looking at the moon,
I lower my head and think of home.

It is Mid Autumn Festival 中秋节 again. I am celebrating yet another festive season in a foreign land. My group of friends, the Malaysian Chinese Medics in Belfast, hold a celebration in one of our friend’s house.

The celebration was fairly simple, nothing like the scale at HOME. As everyone was busy with work, we had a potluck gathering with KFC, Pizzas and Kebabs. The only thing that is related 中秋 is the mooncakes, fly in from HOME.

葡萄美酒月光杯。Having a few drinks with nice company, what else can you ask for in this foreign land?

Have you ponder about what中秋 mean to you and me today? We no longer make our own lanterns, no longer make offering to the moon. Few people know about the legends of the Mid Autumn Festival. Fewer know about the secret messages in the mooncakes. 猜灯谜 is a forgotten game…

The way we celebrated中秋, is it a deterioration of culture? Is it inevitable evolution of our culture? Or is it making the best out what we have in a foreign land?

On a lighter note, full moon has been associated with certain strange phenomenon. There is a belief in the hospitals that elderly patients are more prone to delirium during full moon.

Wolf howling at the full moon is a well known phenomenon. However, one of my friends captured this on his mobile phone camera, 2 days before Mid Autumn Festival. We struggle to understand what make the dog excited. Is there anything in the picture that resemble a full moon, round, smooth and shinny? Any offer of suggestions? :P

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Do visit my friend’s blog page for more moon related stories.

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Rioting in Belfast!

Monday, September 12th, 2005

The weekend past was a weekend of violence in part of

Belfast

where there were mainly Protestant. Earlier in the week, the parade commission ordered the Orange Order not to march through the Catholic dominant area, to avoid clashes. The rioters (mainly Protestant/Loyalist) use the above as an excuse to start a riot. Well… it is human rights to walk down a street whenever you like.

Petrol bomb, blast bomb, pipe bomb and fireworks were thrown at the police. Rounds of live bullets were fired at the security services. The army was drawn in as trouble got worse. Buses, cars and vans were hijacked and set on fire. Road were barricaded by rioters. Shops were set on fire. What a disaster…

 

(Could not post a picture of the rioting here, all pictures taken by the newspaper has copyright, i am too chicken to go and take the picture myself.)

50 police officers were injured. It is lucky that none of them were killed. Few civilian were injured, I wonder if there were rioters. One 20 months old baby suffered a severe head injury was certainly not rioting… His dad’s car was hijacked and bricks and petrol bomb were thrown at it. Those rioters, in the name of human rights, obviously careless about the baby in the car. Poor little fella…

Monday morning, I predicted that the weekend violence will not end. I woke up early to drive to work. (Ya… u read correctly, I woke up EARLY to DRIVE to work. I usually cycle in to work, as cycling is faster in the morning traffic.) I had to take the long way as to avoid flash point area. Too scared to ride or drive down those flash point area. My skull could not withstand a blast bomb; my car is too “expensive” to be destroyed by a petrol bomb.

Monday, the city was at a stand still at 3pm. Everybody were trying to get home early, but many major roads were block as a result of more rioting. Panic start to spread, phone network were overwhelm.

The hospital that I am working in is about 200 meter from the rioting. Many hospital workers were stuck as there were road block everywhere. The Accident and Emergency Department was EMPTY! Well… no one could get to the hospital. Those who did attended were really sick!

I finally got home after my shift at

9pm.

Bringing with me 2 friends, whose mean of transportation were disrupted as a direct result of the rioting.

Rioting after rioting… When will the people in

Belfast

learn to have Zero Tolerance against this act of violence? When will the people in

Belfast

openly criticized this act of terror? Those rioters in my eyes are TERRORIST! The strike terror in the heart of the member of public.

Then again… who am I as a foreigner to comment on a complicated issue like this. I just wanted a peaceful time in

Belfast

. Working, learning and qualify with a higher degree…

Never Give Up???

Saturday, September 10th, 2005

Never give up, you will succeed one day!” I am sure every one of you reading this will remember being given the advice not to give up. Have you been successful yet?

Sometime I wonder, if it is wise to “never give up”. Look at the richest man in the world, Bill Gate, he gave up graduating from university, and now he owns such a successful business. If he“never give up” in his tertiary education, he may not have today!

In the age of Instant Noodles, we do not have time to try over and over again! If we find a certain path in life has too much resistant, maybe it is time to change course. Struggling on and “never give up”, is it worth the pain and effort?

Know when to give up may be the key to success!

Exams, exams more exams!

Friday, September 2nd, 2005

残花凋尽西风中,

寒星数点挂长空。

埋头苦读寒窗旁,

孤苦伶仃异乡中。

First 2 lines of the poem were written by my brother. I wrote the last 2 lines. The first 2 line describe the scenery in autumn. Literally translated as the remaining few flowers battered by the wind, few stars seen in the night sky. The last 2 lines are about the feeling of a lonely student in this foreign land. This poem was written in autumn last year… Unfortunately, nearly one year on, this poem still portray my current situation. Lonely in a foreign land, in the chilly British weather, studying for more exams…